Human’s life cycle.
Most humans do become victim.
Some become self abuser , self torturer and become volunteer to be a victim.
That is a addiction.
When the pain is become unbearable they blame others for their pain.
Those people always has problems with relationships.
Root cause is defective relation with herself and himself.
Every one has a choice to become self aware and find peace with self.
Then that person become advocate against to all kind of abuse including self abuse
and live heavenly life.