June 28 2016

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What  I  learned    from  my  dad  I  used    the same  technique   to  my patient.

Mother  brought  16  y  old   boy  and  was yelling  at  him  asking  me to tell  him  to stop using  drugs.

I  requested   the  mother   to let me handle  him.

I   looked  at the  boy  and  said    I  reviewed  chart   you  are a great   student,  good  grades,  you  are  doing lot better

than   I  was  at  16,  Mom  and  son   staring  at me.

I  continued   You  are  doing    so  well  in this  day  and  age, I am  so proud  of  you.

He  smiled  at  me. I   Posed  a  question  Do  you use  drugs,  He was  not expecting that and  spontaneously said

Yes.

Her  mother  stood  up    why  you  was  lying  to me that you  do not  use  drugs.

I  requested  to  the  mother    Please  do not  interrupt.  and  promised  to  do  so.

I  asked    the  Boy  Do  you  know  what  you need?

Kick  in the  butt    Boy replied

I  said  no  you need   hug  and  kiss

I  grabbed  him  and  kissed   on  his forehead

He  resisted  for a moment  and  put  his  head on  my  shoulder  and  start  crying.

Her  Mom  stood  up   and  yelled  Are  you trying  to tell the  Doctor that  I  am a  bad Mom.

and  stormed  out  of the room.

Boy continued  to  cry  for  a moment   and   really  opened   up  and  told  me  his  story.

Which  was  so sad    but very  typical.  I  comforted  him   and  make  an appointment   in 1  week.

Next  day  her  Mom  came  to see  me    and  I  explained   when kids do something  bad  they feel the guilty

always   use  reverse phycology.   take the  responsibility   and  live them  with guilt  and  it  works  most  of the time.

6  months  later  and  mom  told  me  proudly    that  he is  not using   drugs  any more.

My father  did  to me  and  I  did  to   my patient  and  it  worked,

Try  it   It may  work  for  you.

 

 

 

June 27 2016

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I  was    12   and    I   and   my  friend   was  throwing  stones     at   each  other

I  throw  a  stone  and    it  broke  neighbor’s  window.

My neighbor   came  to my  dad   and  complained  .

My Dad  said   just  tell me  how  it will  cast  and  I  will   pay  you.

Are  you     going  to say  to  your  son”  He  asked.

No My dad replied.

He  is  wonderful  boy  gift  to  me , It is  me   I    am not  being a good dad.

What  is  the  moral  of  this  story?

 

 

June 23, 2016

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Father   son  Stories

Son    of   a  CEO   brought  report  card  and  showed  to  his dad.

It  was  a    bad  grade.

Dad said    This  is  great    We have a  lot  of  home work  to  do especially  me

Son  Said    this    is   your  report  card   when  you  was  of  my  age   and  I  found  it  in the  garage.

Here  is  mine.  I  am   so  proud  of  you  Dad .  My  report  card  is  great,  but thank   you  to  be a  reason  for  me  to do so  well.

Dad   said  if  I  can  be  a  CEO   with  that report  card  can  you  imagine   the possibilities  for  yourself.

Behind  some    successful  man ,   there may  a   great  Dad.

Story  #2

Two  Dads   were  talking   One  Dad  said  my  son  is  the  most  stupid kid.

Other dad  said   I  beg  to  disagree    No  one  top  my  son.

First Dad  called    his  son  and  said    Son  Call  your  Mom  and   ask  her if  I  am with  her?

Son  Said  Sure  Dad       and  left

First Dad  said   can you  believe that?   He  have  no  common  sense.

Second  Dad called  his  son  and  said  Son    Here  are  $20  dollars   your  Mom need  a  car  to go    to work.

Can  you  do  that  for  me?

Sure dad   and    took  $20      and  left.

Both  sons  met  outside    and  one  son  said  to  other  My  dad   is  the most  stupid  person .

Second  son  said    your dad is no match to  mine   He  is  the worse  of  all

First Son Said  He asked  me  to call  mom ,   telephone  was next to him  He  could  have  called  himself   to

mom  if  he is  with her but  he  do not  think  and  tell  me  to  his dirt  work.

Second   son said  Your dad  is  lazy  not  stupid.   My  father   gave  me  the money   to buy a car for  mom,  but

did  not  tell  what  color    and  what  kind.  When I  will get  him  the  car  he  will  yell  at me.

What  is  the  moral  of  these  stories?

 

June 21 2016

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Moral  of  the  previous  story

I  must  know  my  1  2   3

God  is  No  1     I   must  worship  ,  submit  to God  , fall in love  with God

and  give  my heart  to God. God  will  reside  in my heart  and  fill  it  with  light  and  love.

I  will  be  #2     knowing  that  I  am  the gift  to    me  and  must  love  and  take  care  of  myself.

Then  I  know  rest  of  the  creation   is  created   by  GOD     is  #3

I  will   love  the  creation  for  the sake  of  God,

and  love  learn  and  serve   God’s  creation.

My life  will  be  blessed     with love  happiness  and  joy.

NOW  I KNOW  MY   1 , 2 3.

June 17 2016

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Difficulties,  sufferings,  sickness,  difficult peoples  and  challenges   are   all  gifts  of  God.

These  gifts   give  us  purpose  of life.

Without these  gifts   life  is  a  waste.

PS:  God  created  the  cure  or  solution   before  God  created     any  disease   or   issue.  waiting  for  human to discover

the  cure  or  solution  and  serve their  purpose.

 

June 1 6 2016

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Marriage  is   union  of two  souls

Humans   do  have  incompatibilities.

Soul  driven person accept    the  other person as  a  gift  and  keep  growing.

and  will  be  soul mates  for ever.

If     both  are   spiritual  that  will be perfect marriage.

Otherwise marriage  become co dependent ,    can not live   with other,

and  unable to  live   with other  and  may end up  in divorce

It is never too  late  to  take a U  turn  and  become    spiritual being   and accept  other as  a  gift of  God.

and  live happily ever  after

THE END

For June 15 2016

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Long  time    ago    in  a tribe they  decided   to   search  for the most noble person  of  the  tribe.

After    a long  search  they  find  a man   who was  very generous   giving  ,  and  no one knew that.

They  all  agreed    he  is the  most    selfless     and  noble  person.

They  asked  him  to  find  the   worst   person  of  the tribe.

He  came  back after  many years  that I can not  find  any one  who  is  worse than  me.

Same   with Mother Teresa   she  wrote   in  her  diary   I  see   darkness   in  me.

The  world  see    light in  her   and  she   see  light  in poor   and  hungry   and  able  to  see

her  darkness.

That  man    and  Mother  Teresa    were two  rightous   persons.

Rightous  can be  religous   or  not .

Religous   person may  not  be rightous

Being  religous  and  being  rightous  are  two  different things.

Any human being  can  be rightous.

I  have  find inmates  who are  rightous.

Rabbis priest,  imams  or religous  leader may not be rightous

Religous  peole  may see  fault  in others,

But  a  rightous  person  always  see  faults  with in.

Religion is  exclusive, Rightouness  in inclusive.

Sometime religion  devide, rightousness  always  unite/.

Religour  people   try  to   change the  world  Rightous  person tries  to change the  world within.

June 14 2016

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Two  fathers   were  talking  about  their sons.

One  father  said   my  son  is  the most  stupid  person   in the  world.

Other  father said    no  one  can  be  any  match  to  my  son.

First  father disagred  and  said  I  will  prove  to  you that  my  son  is    more  stupid than  your  father.

So  he called  his  son  and  said  said  Son   Call  your  mother  and  ask if  I am  with  her.

Son Said  Sure   dad   and  left.

Other  father  called  his  son    and  said  I  want to buy  a  car,  here  is  $20     can  you get  me  a car   we  do need  an extra  car

for your  mom.

Both Sons  med  outside  and first  son said  My dad  is  the most  stupid  person  in the world.

Second  son  said   you  dad  is  no match to my  dad.  My  dad is the most  stupid  person in the  world.

First one   said  My dad is not  only  stupid  he  is lazy.  The telephone   was  next  to  him  hecould call  him self to check with Mom.

No  not only   he can not think  and  is too lazy    and  tell  me  to  do it.

Second  son  said   my dad  told  me  to  buy the  car   and  never   told  me  which  kind  or  color    and  when I  will  get  the  car   he  will

yeell   at  me.

What  is  the  moral  of  the  story?

June 13 2016

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When I  was  a child   I  loved   Robin  Hood    who  rob  the  rich  and   give   to poors

Now  I have  lot of  questions.

Some one   said   50  %  used  to his  service charge   and  either  he comited  suiside  or   was  killed   during  robery.

Now   I  loved  Robin Williams   and  he  comitted  suiside.

Now  I  have lot  of   questions.

Do  I like  to be  Robin Hood  or  Robin Williams??

What  about  you  guys  ?  Love  to  have  your  input.

June 11 2016

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I read  a  artiche  that  a  college  professor   need  cardiac transplant.

He end  up   reciving   the  heart  of   drunk  driver  who died  in    MVA.

After  the tranplant, the professor  never  used  alchol    start  drinking  heavily  and  died  of  liver issues.

I  am  not  sure  about the validity   of  this  story,  but  it  certainly  raise   questions in my mind.

Is  brain  is  the command  center  or  heart   is the command center  or  two  different  center  work  together

or  work independently.

Give  your opinion      thanks